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I was 18 at the time and had just had my first serious relationship. My circle of friends at the time had a hard time with this relationship and didn't recognize my boyfriend.
I felt torn between the two: On the one hand, my circle of friends was very important to me (especially at that age) on the other hand, I really loved my boyfriend (we've now been married for over 10 years and have two children).

During this phase, I had recurring bladder infections for six months (every four weeks) which were “treated” with antibiotics.
Afterwards, I got an unpleasant vaginal fungal infection every time.

I was desperate. A colleague recommended a homeopathic doctor to me at the time. Back then in the waiting room, I thought to myself:
“So, now if I have a bladder infection every month for the rest of my life, then that's that.” Around the same time, I said goodbye to all my friends and decided to go with my husband.
Since then, cystitis has been history. I haven't had one for over 15 years.
It's only since I've been studying 5BN that I've understood the connection.
Thank you very much for your work!

Note from Björn Eybl
Thank you Kerstin for the interesting experience report.
I think the territory marking conflict that led to the recurring bladder infections was your friends crossing your red lines and interfering with your choice of partner. A boundary violation.
The biological sense is that you have to pee more often to define your boundaries more clearly.

Note from Ingmar Marquardt:
The rhythm of every 4 weeks suggests that there may have been a link with the female cycle and the associated hormonal fluctuations, i.e. that the issue was always perceived more intensely in the more feminine phases (more oestrogen, before ovulation), for example, thereby activating the SBS. And in the more masculine phases (less oestrogen, during menstruation) it went into solution and the symptoms occurred. or vice versa.
The vaginal fungal infection could, for example, have been a local secondary conflict of the cystitis, which was always activated by the cystitis (“defilement/attack conflict” in the genital area) and went into solution after the cystitis subsided, with corresponding symptoms of loosening of the dermis in the area of the labia minora.
Or the upper (ectodermal) or deeper (entodermal) vaginal mucosa may have reacted because sexual intercourse was not possible during the period of cystitis, so that a corresponding separation conflict (without fungi, in which case the diagnosis would be incorrect, which often occurs) or sexual chunk conflict was felt there.